I know exactly what it feels like to be stuck in a marriage you no longer recognize.
In 2011, I had an identity crisis of epic proportions. I didn’t know who I was or what was important to me, and I made some really bad choices.
Instead of taking a step back to re-evaluate why I was so unhappy in my life and my marriage, I went off the deep end. I had two affairs. I allowed myself to get swept away by the second guy, buying into his twisted fairytales. I left my husband, moved out of our house and broke my kids’ hearts. And then my heart got broken in spectacular fashion.
When 2012 dawned, I was single, alone and gutted. Three months later, I went on my own version of an Eat-Pray-Love vacation to Hawaii.
Suddenly, I knew what I needed to do –fix myself and reconcile with my husband. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done.
I had to come to terms with who I had become and work hard to become the person I wanted to be. Individual and couples therapy were integral to this healing.
Individual and couple therapy were integral to this healing. Without the intense self-awareness work I did, I wouldn’t be where I am today.
I can’t help but think: If I had a place to talk openly and honestly with other women who were also stuck in unhappy marriages, could I have avoided the pain and heartache? Could I have spared my family from the most wretched months of our lives?
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Please know that no matter how hard it is today, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. My wish for you is to find the right tunnel. With our community’s support, I hope you do.
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