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Thanks for applying to join The Shelter!

Due to the sensitive nature of The Shelter’s topics, we have strict rules of engagement. Please read through this carefully before you continue.

The Shelter is not a dating site, nor is it a hookup site like Ashley Madison. We are not going to teach you how to hide your assets or your affair.

We don’t talk about sex explicitly. Our conversations and topics revolve around emotions and relationships, not sex. We are only here for supporting each other emotionally, not acting as armchair sex coaches or therapists.

We do not tolerate abusive or malicious language or advice. This is a loving, supportive, judgement-free zone. (Curse words are perfectly fine, as long as they are not aimed at anyone in the community.)

We also tend to use the word “marriage” over “relationships”, but The Shelter is for anyone in a committed relationship. LGBTQ people are more than welcome!

NOW LET’S SEE WHERE YOU ARE IN YOUR LIFE,

shall we?

The Shelter Application

As you know, privacy is a big deal on our site. Your username cannot be your real name or  email address.  Please be mindful to select a username that is not obscene, lewd or otherwise inappropriate
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